Parenting
I’m Not Responsible For My Child…
I don’t think I’m responsible for my children. I know that’s a bold statement to put out there. Even irresponsible, perhaps? But hear me out.
September 18, 2023
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Parenting
Parenting in a Climate of Anti-Asian Racism
It’s been quite a week. In the aftermath of the Atlanta shootings that killed 8 people, 6 of whom were Asian American women, I know
March 20, 2021
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Parenting
Parenting is Political
Election Day in the U.S. is almost here. If you haven’t already, get out there and VOTE! This is my first time voting for a
October 31, 2020
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Parenting
How Permissive Parenting Can Be a Tool of Oppression
As an untigering mother and unschooler, I often criticize the coercive authoritarian parenting that I grew up with and practiced for many years. But to
October 7, 2019
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Parenting
Parenting Without Evaluation
It’s you I like,It’s not the things you wear,It’s not the way you do your hairBut it’s you I likeThe way you are right now,The
October 23, 2018
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Parenting
The Untigering Style of Parenting: Parenting Through Partnership
There are several parenting styles that untigering parents should steer clear of: Authoritarian Parenting: No-Give Such parents are strict, demanding, inflexible and unresponsive to their
April 13, 2018
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Parenting
Parenting Without Expecting A Return on Investment
(For the purpose of this post and blog, I use “Chinese” or “Asian” the same way Amy Chua, the original Tiger Mother, uses them—in broad
January 3, 2018
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Parenting
How to Begin Your Untigering Story
Most tiger moms and dads would admit that we don’t want to parent the same way we were parented. Regardless of whether our childhood was
August 28, 2017
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